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My 5 Favorites (July 2020)

It’s Sweet Summertime, and I’m back with a favorites post! In these posts I share a wide variety of things I’m currently loving and enjoying. I hope you discover something that may just become a new favorite!

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Bananagrams

I love finding a game that our whole family can enjoy, from the youngest to the oldest. I think we found that in Bananagrams! We started playing Banagrams several months ago, and it has quickly become a family favorite. A little easier than Scrabble, Bananagrams is brain-stretching while being plenty of fun! I’d highly recommend adding this game to your collection!!

Another family favorite is Racko! Did you ever play it as a kid? Check out the retro version here!

Cold Tea with Almond Milk

Tea is my favorite warm drink of choice! I’ve been drinking it since I was a very young girl. I still enjoy warm tea in the summer, but I’ve been wanting to add a colder, caffeinated drink to my afternoon routine. Recently a friend shared that she’d been drinking cold unsweetened black tea with almond milk. That was a simple choice for me to make too–it’s what I currently drink, just cold! I appreciated her suggestion. I guess I needed a little help to think outside the box!

If you’re also a tea lover, check out my favorite electric tea kettle that I’ve owned for 3 years!

Natural Deodorant

One of my favorite Instagram accounts to follow is Style This Life. (I’ll make her a BONUS favorite for the month.) It was through Style This Life that I learned about the company Public Goods. Style This Life often shares about this natural-based company, and I was especially intrigued when she mentioned her approval of their natural deodorant, specifically their crystal deodorant spray. I’ve been using it for over a month now, and it’s working for me. I will keep you posted as I continue to use it throughout the hot, summer months.

Check out Public Goods if you’re looking to add more natural items to your life! (*Please note: when you purchase from Public Goods they automatically sign you up for a free trial membership. Make sure to unsubscribe after receiving your purchase if you’re not interested in the membership.)

For $10 towards your first purchase, click here!

Audible Subscription

My husband gave me an Audible subscription for my birthday. He knows I love books and that I enjoy listening to them while I walk or drive or clean. I’ve had a couple free trials, and I recommend signing up for a trial if you’re not sure you want the full subscription. Some of my favorite books have been ones I listen to; you can’t beat a well-narrated audio book! I just recently listened to Rhythms of Renewal by Rebekah Lyons and Educated by Tara Westover

If you want to give Audible a try, sign up for their 30 day trial! Happy Listening!

Mercari

If you’ve been around here for even a short amount of time you know that I’m a big fan of second-hand shopping. I especially love buying clothes second-hand. Giving more life and wear to a piece that someone previously owned is one of my favorite ways to shop smarter. I would guess that about half my closet is second-hand, and I love it! ThredUp has always been my go-to online store, but I also recently discovered Mercari. Through Mercari I have bought 6 items and sold 4. Even if you’re not into buying second-hand, it’s a great place to sell your gently-used items.

If you want to give Mercari a try, click my link for $10 off your first order!

If you want to try thredUp, here’s $10 for first time customers!

What about you? What are some of your current favorites? I want to hear what you’re loving, so drop a comment below!

If you’re looking to catch up on past favorites, click here!

To find all my favorites in one place, make sure you check out my Amazon store.

Until next time,

Charissa (The Not So Busy Mom)

How to Make the Most of Life at Home During a Pandemic

How To make the most of life at home during a Pandemic--Pin We’re all spending most of our time at home these days due to the pandemic. I’m not working, and my kids have been home from school for 5 weeks.

Their school district began distance learning 4 weeks ago, and the teachers and students are working hard to continue the school year online.

School is filling many of our daily hours, but we are also making time for a variety of activities and trying to enjoy this time as different as it may be.

Outdoor Time

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Outdoor time has been such an important part of our day as we keep our distance from others and enjoy time at home. We recently bought my son this soccer net, and the kids have been playing plenty of friendly, competitive games. They’ve also spent time creating chalk drawings, and we’ve been reading in the sun. It may be chilly, but the Vitamin D does us all good!

Walks

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We are very thankful that our neighborhood abuts conservation land. We have been trying to take daily family walks. Even if we’re not initially feeling up to it, everyone is in much better spirits when we return from the walk.

For more pictures and a little inside scoop into our family life, make sure you come follow me on Instagram!

Audio books

We have always been fans of audio books even before all this extra time at home. Audio books are such a great way to consume books. We’ll play an audio book and color or build LEGOS or just rest on the couch.

Some of our favorite audio books include:

Family Games

Our family enjoys playing various card and board games together. For my son’s birthday he was gifted both Yahtzee and a nice chess set.

We have so many favorite family games including:

New Simple Recipes

I like cooking simple meals for my family because I like to keep things simple whenever and however I can. I’ve been sticking to simple meals during all this time at home, and we’ve also been experimenting.

I’ve recently tried these simple recipes:

Banana Muffins

Italian Chicken with Green Beans and Potatoes

Lasagna

Pinterest has been my favorite place to find simple recipes. If you’ve made a favorite tasty meal recently, please share it in the comments below!

Online Workouts

We’ve been having lots of fun moving and exercising inside when we can’t get outside. What a rainy spring it has been!

When this all started, I searched for at-home workouts and immediately found the Body Coach. We’ve enjoyed working out with Joe, the Body Coach, several times a week. He has daily PE sessions for kids, and endless workouts for anyone looking to move their body!

My kids also really like Go Noodle. These short videos get them moving and release energy while having tons of fun!

Making the Most of It

Truth be told, I enjoy life at home. I don’t think that comes as much of a surprise to those of you who have been around here for awhile. I enjoy slowing down and taking part in the simpler things of life.

This isn’t an easy situation, but we’re trying to make the best of it. The days aren’t always pleasant. Sometimes they’re just plain hard, but we’re finding our way day by day.

With each passing day, the important becomes even more clear.

What about you? What is life looking like for you right now? I’d love to hear from you, so drop a comment below!

Until next time,
Charissa
The Not So Busy Mom

The Top 5 Books I Read in 2019

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Books and reading have always been important to me. Because of that, in the past few years, I’ve chosen to set reading goals for myself. In 2018 I had a reading goal of 25 books, and in the end, I was able to read 19.

I decided to set that same 25 books goal for 2019, and hopefully reach it this time. With just a few minutes to spare, I’m happy to report that I met my 2019 reading goal. (Yes, I finished reading my final book at 11:40pm on New Year’s Eve!)

I read so many great books in 2019 and just a couple that I thought were pretty good (but not great). Here in this post you’ll find my top 5 favorites, a couple of honorable mentions, and a list of all 25 books.

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My Top 5 Reads of 2019

*in no particular order

The Finest Hours by Michael J. Tougias

This is the adaptation for young readers, but I think it’s the perfect choice for most people. (The original version is full of a lot more sea and boat details and terminology.) I read this book while subbing long-term for a wonderful group of 6th graders. Maybe I love it so much because I taught it. Maybe I love it so much because it took place just a few miles from my home. Ultimately, it’s a true story that is hard to believe; that’s really what makes it so fantastic! If you want a great story of heroism, check out The Finest Hours! There’s also a movie version of the book that is well done. (Make sure you read the book first!)

It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way by Lysa TerKeurst

I listened to this one and enjoyed hearing Lysa’s voice as she shared her marriage story and her heart. A lot of life is full of heartache and disappointment. We might be quick to say, “It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way!”. Yet there is hope and purpose in the midst of all the yuck. Lysa so beautifully conveys all of that in It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way.

Marilla of Green Gables by Sarah McCoy

I’ve always been a fan of Anne of Green Gables, so I was very excited when I learned Sarah McCoy had written a prequel. McCoy did a beautiful job of staying true to the original story and imagining (so very well) the untold story of Marilla of Green Gables.

Becoming Mrs. Lewis by Patti Callhan

You would categorize this book as historical fiction, and it is so wonderfully written. The author used old letters, journals, and poetry to write and bring to life the love story of C.S. Lewis and Joy Davidman. Becoming Mrs. Lewis is a beautiful story of love, life, and faith.

Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport

I’m drawn to minimalism. I’m also drawn to intentional and purposeful living, so this book was right up my alley! If you’re looking to make your digital world a little smaller and more focused, I highly recommend this book. It’s full of important insight and plenty of practical tips. Digital Minimalism is not to be missed. (Read it with your spouse. Share it with your family.)

*If you enjoy listening to books, don’t forget about Audible’s free trial membership.*

2 Honorable Mentions

At Home in the World by Tsh Oxenreider

This is a great book for those who love to or long for travel!

Delay, Don’t Deny by Gin Stephens

I had heard about intermittent fasting while watching a few brief videos online. This book provided even more information about the topic.

*If you like ebooks and audiobooks, then a kindle unlimited membership might be a great option for you.*

All 25 Books I Read in 2019

Remember God by Annie F. Downs (non-fiction)

The Finest Hours by Michael J. Tougias (non-fiction)

Sisters First by Jenna Bush Hager and Barbara Pierce Bush (non-fiction, audio)

The Widow’s War by Sally Cabot Gunning (fiction)

Home of the Brave by Katherine Applegate (fiction, middles grades)

It’s Not Supposed This Way by Lysa TerKeurst (non-fiction, audio)

Cozy Minimalist Home by Myquillyn Smith (non-fiction)

At Home in the World by Tsh Oxenreider (non-fiction)

Marilla of Green Gables by Sarah McCoy (fiction)

Restart by Gordon Korman (fiction, middle grades)

What Falls From The Sky by Esther Emery (non-fiction)

The Westing Game by Ellen Raskin (fiction, middle grades, audio)

The Art of Frugal Hedonism by Annie Raser-Rowland & Adam Grubb (non-fiction)

Eat Cake. Be Brave by Melissa Radke (non-fiction)

A Dangerous Legacy by Elizabeth Camden (fiction)

The Proper Care & Feeding of Husbands by Dr. Laura Schlessinger (non-fiction)

Jacky Ha Ha by James Patterson (fiction, middle grades, audio)

Deny, Don’t Delay by Gin Stephens (non-fiction)

Death Comes to Pemberley by P.D. James (fiction)

Becoming Mrs. Lewis by Patti Callahan (fiction)

Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport (non-fiction)

The Minimalist Home by Joshua Becker (non-fiction)

The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society by Mary Ann Shaffer and Annie Barrows (fiction)

Catching Christmas by Terri Blackstock (fiction)

Eight Cousins by Louisa May Alcott (fiction)

Some Final Thoughts

*Just because I read these books, it doesn’t mean I recommend them all. (I do recommend my top 5, for sure!) For example, I thought The Widow’s War was interesting and well-written. It takes place where I live, and I always enjoy historical fiction. That being said, I think there is some mature content that I don’t always enjoy encountering in books (even as an adult).

*I love reading a variety of books. I enjoy both fiction and non-fiction. I enjoy heart-warming and serious. I think you’ll see that love of variety reflected in my list.

*I enjoy middle grades books very much. I’ve shared this before, but it’s true! I was a fifth grade teacher a number of years ago, and middle grade books are still some of my favorites. You’ll almost always find a few on my reading list each year!

Related Posts:

The Books I Read in 2018

My Top 4 Reads of 2017

5 Books That Have Inspired and Encouraged the Not So Busy Mom

What about you? What books did you read in 2019? Any great titles you’d like to share? Feel free to drop your ideas in the comments below!

Until next time,
Charissa

The Not So Busy Mom

10 Cozy Gift Ideas for Women

If you’re still shopping, then I have 10 cozy ideas for you today! I chose items to promote slow, cozy, comfy moments. It’s a great time of the year to rest and renew, and I hope these gifts help you or a loved-one do just that!

Feel free to click on the item name or picture to get further details about each gift idea!

(This post contains affiliate links, so thenotsobusymom receives a very small commission if you make a purchase through the links. Thank you for supporting the blog!)

Fuzzy Slippers

These fuzzy slippers are so cute and look super comfortable!

Cozy socks

Cozy socks that come in 13 different color choices? Yes, please!

Electric Tea Kettle

I have this electric tea kettle and love it! Stove top kettles are also an option.

Stash brand tea set

I absolutely love tea. With this set containing 40 tea bags and 20 different flavors, the tea-lover in your life is sure to be pleased! If you want it in a bamboo gift box, that option is available too.

Throw Blanket

A warm flannel fleece blanket makes for a great gift idea!

Cozy sweatshirt

This cozy sweatshirt/jacket combo comes in 9 different colors.

Heating Pad

There are thousands of positive reviews on this heating pad.

Marble Ceramic Mug

There are plenty of size and color options available. The YETI mugs are also a good option for those that like to take their drinks on the go. I have and love this style.

Thick Knit Infinity Scarf

This infinity scarf comes in a variety of styles with dozens of color options.

Fleece Pajama Set

Nothing says cozy like a fleece pajama set. This one comes in 4 different patterns.

What about you? What gifts say “cozy” to you? I hope you found something on this list that inspires your gift-giving. Feel free to share in the comments below!

If you missed my tween/teen gift guide, feel free to check it out!

If you’re curious to see gift guides from past years with plenty of fun ideas, you can look here!

Until next time,
Charissa
The Not So Busy Mom

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15 Gift Ideas for Tweens and Teens

Do you have a tween or teen in your life? Looking for gift ideas for them? Well, I’ve got 15 great ideas all under $50. Take a look, and see if you find something that might just bring a smile to that special tween/teen!

I think gift guides are so fun and provide lots of inspiration! I hope that you find some unique (and not so unique) ideas in the list below! Feel free to click on the gift name or picture to be taken to the product.

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Super Soft Carpet

So many fun colors to choose from, this carpet is a gift that will warm up any teen or tween bedroom.

Giant Tortilla Throw Blanket

Who doesn’t want to sleep with a giant tortilla blanket?! If your tween or teen doesn’t, they have plenty of other choices including waffles and pizza!

Carhartt Hat

A popular gift idea and with over 30 color options, you can’t go wrong!

Night light/ Speaker

Night light, speaker, and bedside lamp all in one! 7 color changing light mode!

Magnetic Dart Board

Great option for the bedroom or playroom! Magnetic darts provide safer fun for all!

Whiteboard Monthly Calendar

Have a teen or tween who likes (or needs) to stay organized? Check out this calendar!

Drawing Set

For the artist in your life, check out this XL drawing set.

Chair Swing (Indoor/Outdoor)

A chair swing! So fun!!

Bedside Shelf

Create extra space with a simple bedside shelf!

Backpack

7 colors available for this multi-purpose backpack!

Book: The Running Dream

Book options abound, and this one caught my eye. I’m actually reading it next because I am a fan of middle grade books!

Reading Pillow

A dozen colors available!

Corn Hole (Portable)

Corn hole is a much-loved outdoor game; this one is even better because it’s portable!

On-Ear Headphones

Great reviews for these headphones that are less than $23!

Amazon Gift Card

When in doubt, there’s always a gift card!

What about you? Are you looking for a tween/teen gift? Anything on my list catch your eye or any new idea to share? I’d love to hear from you, so drop a comment below!

If you want to see gift guides from prior years, feel free to check out the posts below!

25 Gifts for Kids–All Under $25

25 Gifts for Women–All Under $25

A Cozy Gift Basket Idea

Until next time,
Charissa

Is Busyness a Choice?

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WE live in a busy world. That’s how it seems, and that’s what everyone says.

We’re all busy, right?! There’s no other way, right?! We have no choice in the matter, right?

Busy as a choice…it’s certainly a subject matter to consider if you haven’t already done so. When it comes down to it, it’s important to ask: is busyness a choice?

Yes, it’s (mostly) a choice

I think that ultimately much of our busyness is a choice and our choice. For example, we choose to get married, have a child, and start a family. A child needs to be cared for (in a variety of ways), so here comes “the busy”. We choose to have another child. More busy. We buy a house and have to maintain it. We get involved in social circles, in our community, and our church. We sign up for activities, and then we sign our children up for activities.

Yes, ultimately, we choose all that busyness. Maybe we don’t look at it that way, but it truly is how it works. We live this life; it’s a life made up of days, weeks, months, and years, and we choose how we fill it.

No, it’s not (always) a choice

There are also things in life we don’t choose. A family doesn’t choose a terminal illness that lands their child in the hospital for months on end. A person don’t choose the loss of a spouse and the single life filled with all the responsibilities. No, we don’t always choose the busyness. Yes, there are situations and parts of life that are unavoidably busy.

If life has you in a place where most of your busyness was not your choice, don’t despair; don’t become discouraged. There are parts of life we just can’t change, and some of that, comes with a whole lot of busyness.

Choose wisely

If we remember that there is unavoidable busyness then we can more carefully consider the avoidable busyness of life. Options for how we choose to fill our days surround us (and often crowd us). When the choice is ours, we must choose wisely. Fill your day to the brim if you think that is best, but don’t forget (when you’re tempted to complain) that you made that choice. Sign your kids up for lots of extra curricular activities if you want, but don’t grumble out it. Fill your calendar to overflowing if that seems best, but don’t tell everyone around you just how busy you are.

Choose your attitude

If you can’t change the circumstance (and maybe you don’t want to or you can’t), then change your attitude. There is a lot of life that we might refer to as busy. But you know what? Maybe it’s not busy. Maybe it’s life. Maybe it’s a blessing. Maybe it’s a choice. Maybe we should be thankful and grateful and embrace the life we’re living.

Sometimes it's just a simple change of attitude that leads to a heart of gratitude.